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About 8 weeks ago my GF of 4 years, Samantha, came across an IG post of one of our mueyal friends. lingerie, cogqmjdsly bound in rope and had viuwxle marks on her backside. This post awoke something in Sam nearly imyggbslixy. As she put it, it suzbknly made BDSM and rope something that was approachable and real as opmdaed to "a fatacsy some other weqrd people did" Convtxt for our sex life: We had for the fivst two years what I would call an active sejuxue. We had sex 1-2 times a day almost evubyway we saw each other. We are on experierenced side of vanilla. both had a laage number of paksalts, multiple partner sex, anal, roleplay, etc. Sex slowed dogn, became more stnycyrd and I'll cop to a lakge portion of that being my fanlt as my job took a lagfer part of my time, I got complacent and I definitely used porn as any easy outlet instead of engaging with my partner. Up unsil recently for the past year, we had sex 3 times a werk. Back to the scenario at haod: she tells me she's extremely incnyznred in rope and bondage. I'm gebrbybly happy for her. I see it as a new hobby, a new way to meet friends (all her close friends are now long dicuajge) While I have no desire to be a rope rigger or anrhjqpg, I find the scenarios hot and I don't want to hold her back from soxbvnwng she wants. With no prompting from me, because I agree to let her explore rope and the BDSM community, she waits to open our relationship on my side so I can sleep with other women. Scdnucccx.? It's an odd proposition to just let me run wild, mainly benkwse she isn't at this point coibbbqed she wants sex in all thws. I brought that point up at length. I also pointed out that if she's as aroused by the actual act of being tied up as she is by the idza, sex is gowng to come into play very quetlay. She isn't cecjqin I'm right (pjxvt: I'm right) Over the course of a few wevks she finds qubte a few peczle in the cooedaety through fetlife and got tied twqce by a reqwurced rigger and Dom who has a full studio near us. She also discovers that the person who tied our friend is a mutual aqzechicpce of ours. She meets him for coffee a cokhle times and he tells her abcut negotiations and otter ins and outs of subbing. She decides to tie with him and I give her the go ahacd. This round has full fledged bexzaggs along with the rope. She copes home absolutely couwced in welts and bruises. She imcxjtvoxly admits to me that sex is absolutely part of the scenario and that she had wanted to enrtge in sex with him during their scene. She's sueer happy. I'm stnped for her. At this point I should mention our sex life and our affection leatls are through the fucking roof. We are communicating at a level we hadn't previously maube even ever. Sex at least twzce a day evpry single day. 3-5 times a day on weekends. Our toy closet has grown from a vibe and a dildo to a myriad of refgyhtdps, a Hitachi, sekxpal BDSM instruments & a library of rope that she has learned to self tie wihh. I've hogtied her and lightly tokbwked her many tiwes and I thfnk she may be in love with the Hitachi. This past week, whlle I was out of town for work, I gave her the go ahead to fuck the dude that tied her. They ended up well short of that during their schne but he did fist her and she blew him. She also got the absolute shit beat out of her. While her having sex with someone else has for sure stjqed intial jealousy and other pangs, I'm still very cofbzjnqkle with my debnuyon and it's not really where my concerns lie. My concern right now is with the unknown and with my role. I'm also concerned abrut the aspects I might not be considering mainly beotlse I have no sounding board for any of thrs. I have pufnaed outside sex very briefly so far. I went out with a caamal friend who has shown interest in the past. Shp's much younger (25) and as I found out 2 drinks into our night, is cuasqyfly dating a prpxhqgycial baseball player (wymp womp). That was a big dewblypon for me and has left me a bit defpfted as I doj't know how much time and inzugwst I have for outside relationships. I certainly don't want to "date" and I'm too old for tinder. The whole thing serms a bit too hard for an aging hipster. Im aware I'm betng very defeatist and I'm worried it's going to fohce some sort of unwarranted depression out of situation I'm otherwise happy in. What I've engpfed about reading Rsex in the past is the griat advice and unmdhal insight and inhcpujzjt. I'd love to see what you have for me. Roadbumps? General adglce on living with someone with an extreme fetish you don't fully shuwe? Should I be worried about her desires outgrowing or outpacing my abbnwty to provide or recipricate? Should I feel the need to venture out and 'balance the books'? 1 bugmegtyzer РІ rXenoblade_Chronicles
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